Transformers: A Casual Encounter

Posted by sam under Casual Encounters on Monday Oct 17, 2011


This is part 1 of a Transformers stop motion mini series. This took me about 5 days (over the course of 2 weeks). It was all done frame by frame (so none of that crap where the person holds the figure and moves it around while the camera is on). Software used: Stop Motion Pro Adobe Premiere 1.5 Adobe After Effects *Sept 13 Update* I have reloaded the video. I had to make a correction in the credits. I also updated some of the sfx. Changes made: Changed titles/text Laser Blasts some random sound fx Ending credits Thanks for watching!

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Anatomy of a Craigslist Casual Encounter Post

Posted by sam under Casual Encounters on Thursday Jun 16, 2011


Wrestling – w4mm – 28 (brooklyn) Hi I have had a fantasy for long time and I am looking to make it happen. Please read completely and if you are interested I will be happy yo hear from you. Here is what I am looking for. I like to find two guys and all of us will meet in my place or your. I want to see you are nude wrestling and kick each others ball during the wrestling. I will have sex with who ever is the winner and the other one will watch us. Then you will both live. You can be two friends or I can arrange two guys individually and match a group from you. If you are interested write me back with all your description and a pic. As soon as I find the other guy we will meet.

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A Clothes Encounter In The Business World

Posted by sam under Casual Encounters on Friday Sep 10, 2010

Do you ever wonder where all the dress rules have gone? Depending on when and where you are on any given business day, the words “distant past” might come to mind. It’s difficult to decide if people don’t know what to wear to work or if they have lost sight of the relevance of appearance to professional success.

The Queen of England is reported to have told Prince Charles, “Dress gives one the outward sign from which people can judge the inward state of mind. One they can see, the other they cannot.” Clearly, she was saying what many people are reluctant to accept; that people judge us by the way we dress. In all situations, business and social, our outward appearance sends a message.

Try going to a busy restaurant at lunchtime. Look around you at what people are wearing and see if you don’t make judgments about who they are, their line of business, their personalities and their competencies. Think about how you feel when you are dressed in your usual business attire as opposed to casual dress. Your choice of business apparel speaks to your professional behavior and credibility. It is important to understand how to dress for business if you wish to promote yourself and your organization in a positive manner,

How you dress depends on four factors: the industry in which you work, the job you have within that industry, the geographic area in which you live; and most importantly, what your client expects to see.

Professional Dress for Men

In men’s clothing, fashion does not change significantly from season to season but business attire is about being professional and not about being fashionable. It’s about presenting yourself in a way that makes your clients feel comfortable and confident with you. Dressing for success is still the rule. The professional businessman should keep in mind these few points when deciding what to wear to work.

Choose a conservative suit in navy, black or gray either pinstripe or solid. The quality of the material speaks as loudly as the color and can make the difference between sleaze and suave.

A solid white or blue dress shirt with long sleeves offers the most polished look. The more pattern and color you add, the more the focus is on your clothing, rather than your professionalism.

Ties should be made of silk or a silk-like fabric. Avoid the cartoon characters and go for simple and subtle if you want to enhance your credibility.

Socks should be calf-length or above. Make sure they match not only what you are wearing, but also each other. A quick glance in good light before heading out the door can save embarrassment later in the day. Check for holes as well if you’ll be going through airport security and removing your shoes.

Shoes should without question be conservative, clean and well polished. Lace-up shoes are the choice over slip-ons or flip flops. Don’t think for a minute that people don’t notice shoes. Many people will look at your feet before your face.

Belts need to match or closely coordinate with your shoes. Once again, quality counts.

Keep jewelry to a minimum. In a time when men sport gold necklaces, bracelets and earrings, the business professional should limit himself to a conservative watch, a wedding band and maybe his college ring.

Personal hygiene is part of the success equation. Freshly scrubbed wins out over heavily fragranced any day of the week. Save the after-shave for after hours, but never the shave itself.

The finishing touch for the business man is his choice of accessories: briefcase, portfolio and pen. When it comes to sealing the deal, a top of the line suit, a silk tie and a good pair of leather shoes can lose their affect when you pull out the ball point pen you picked up in the hotel meeting room the day before.

Professional Dress for Women

When women entered the workplace in the 1970′s and 1980′s in greater numbers than ever before and began to move into positions which had traditionally been held by men, many of them believed that they needed to imitate male business attire. The result was women showing up at the office in skirted suits or coordinated skirts and jackets with tailored blouses finished off with an accessory item that looked very much like a man’s tie. Happily those days are gone. While the business woman may now wear trousers to work, she does it out of a desire to appear professional and at the same time enjoy the flexibility and comfort that pants offer over skirts. Her goal is no longer to mirror her male colleagues.

The same overall rules apply to women’s work attire as apply to men’s. Business clothing is not a reflection of the latest fashion trend. A woman should be noticed for who she is and her professional skills rather than for what she wears. Her business wear should be appropriate for her industry and her position or title within the industry.

Start with a skirted suit or pants suit for the most conservative look. A skirted suit is the most professional. With a few exceptions, dresses do not offer the same credibility unless they are accompanied by matching jackets.

Skirts should be knee-length or slightly above or below. Avoid extremes. A skirt more than two inches above the knee raises eyebrows and questions.

Pants should break at the top of the foot or shoe. While Capri pants and their fashion cousins that come in assorted lengths from mid-calf to ankle are the latest trend, they are out of place in the conservative business environment.

Blouses and sweaters provide color and variety to woman’s clothing, but they should be appealing rather than revealing. Inappropriate necklines and waistlines can give the wrong impression.

Women need to wear hose in the business world. Neutral or flesh-tone stockings are the best choices. Never wear dark hose with light-colored clothing or shoes. Keep an extra pair of stockings in your desk drawer unless the hosiery store is next door or just down the street from the office.

Faces, not feet, should be the focal point in business so chose conservative shoes. A low heel is more professional than flats or high heels. In spite of current fashion and the sandal rage, open-toed or backless shoes are not office attire. Not only are sandals a safety hazard, they suggest a certain official agenda.

When it comes to accessories and jewelry, less is once again more. Keep it simple: one ring per hand, one earring per ear. Accessories should reflect your personality, not diminish your credibility.

Business attire is different from weekend and evening wear. Investing in a good business wardrobe is an investment in your professional future. For those who think it’s not what you wear but who you are that creates success, give that some more thought. Business skills and experience count, but so does personal appearance and that all-important first impression.

© 2005, Lydia Ramsey. All rights in all media reserved.

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Sex After 40 a Rare Encounter for Single Women

Posted by sam under Casual Encounters on Tuesday Sep 7, 2010

The young single girls and married women don’t seem to have a lot of problem having sexual relationships. The reality is that single women over the age of 40 seem to have difficulties soliciting sex. As women get older they confess to having less sexual partners. Sometimes they lack even one partner. This is because of cultural beliefs, social and biological effects of aging. A point to note is that only single women lack partners but their is plenty of easy sex after 40 for men. The study focused on women between the age of 40-59. Some of them were either single, widowed or single as a result of divorce. This group of women is usually underepresented in most social studies. Researchers focus more on married women and single girls in their study.

There are exceptional cases where women from this age group are so seductive a 20 year old would fall in love with her but they are rare. We have them acting in movies for example a character like Susan Sarandon’s in the Bull Durhan movie. The allure is an exception but not a rule for many single women who are over 40 years of age. With no much choice sex after 40 becomes a rare service and the women are forced to celibacy. The factors contributing to their boring kind of life may be associated with some combination of factors. You will agree with me that older women are perceived to be less attractive by men, women and surprisingly themselves too. Many say that middle aged women have the middle section of their body larger than any other part of the body. As they age they feel they cannot attract sexual partners and so it becomes like that. The mind of a human being is a major entity to what she is and what she becomes.

In our society having sex outside marriage is condemned by every one. It is these conservative beliefs about casual sex that enslave some of these women above 40. Premarital sex is highly discouraged even when a woman’s age is advanced above 40 years, the society expects her to still find a husband before she starts enjoying sex. There is a trend which make sex after 40 for these women even more challenging. This is the trend where men of their age pair up with young girls. This reduces their chances by far. Older men find young girls so attractive. Who doesn’t want the best? we all want it.

Another contributing factor to their misery is the high male mortality rates evident in the society today. It is unfortunate that few males are born and to make the matters worse they do not live long enough. There are much more widows compared to widowers in the society. Women live longer than men and their birth rate is higher hence the existing ratio imbalance. With many women and few men, middle aged women find it tasking to solicit sex after 40. The energy to compete for a sexual partner erodes with age. Paradoxically, having a college education decreases the chances of finding sexual partners. Heterosexual men prefer partners with similar or lower education. This results into smaller pool of partners for women who are highly educated.

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The Encounter

Posted by sam under Casual Encounters on Friday Jun 18, 2010
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Close Encounter T-Shirt

Posted by sam under Casual Encounters on Sunday May 16, 2010

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How to Arrange a Casual Sex Encounter

Posted by sam under No Strings Attached on Friday Apr 16, 2010

Many people are interested in having a casual sexual encounter with a stranger. These types of encounters are often referred to as n.s.a. (no-strings-attached). The trouble with these types of hookups is that it is difficult to find a reliable resource for meeting partners. Many of the places to meet people are online, and because there are so many of them, the task of finding a partner can be daunting. You must create an online identity/persona that you will use to shop yourself around to potential partners. And, because there are so many websites dedicated to hooking up with casual partners, it is a good idea to create profiles on several sites at the same time. Make sure that your profile is enticing, because you only get one chance at a first impression. After you have created a profile, start searching through other member profiles and initiate contact. It truly is a numbers game, and it is only a matter of time before you find somebody with whom you share a mutual attraction. So, do not hesitate to contact as many people as you wish. After you find somebody and the mutual attraction is established, the next step is to move on to finding a arranging safe meeting place. For a casual encounter, it is best to meet in a very public place, like a coffee shop or a bar, before you go anywhere private. In fact, it is probably a good idea to do this all of the time- it is always better to play it safe. One more thing to remember is that if you want your encounter to remain casual, then you must remember to keep a safe emotional distance from one another. Another great way to have a casual encounter without the risk of meeting up with a stranger or having sex with a person of questionable safety, phone sex is a great alternative. Phone sex is just as safe as masturbation and has the added thrill of sharing the experience with another person, as a bonus; you can fulfill your secret fantasies without the potential repercussions of acting them out.

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