A late night visit takes some unexpected turns. Directed by Arlen Konopaki. Written by Amy Matysio. Starring Amy Matysio & Kurt Hahn. Music by Cellolitis. Check him out online at: www.cellolitis.de.
People think that one-night stands are cool. People think they are exciting. People go for it when they are drunk, happy, in search for something spicy, fleeing boredom, daring something new and untouched. In short, every one of us has had a one-night stand at some point of their lives.
A good friend of mine Nina told me the most exciting story of a one-night stand that she had in Paris. This was the most romantic story I have ever heard. Thus I am dying to share it with the world.
Nina is a very attractive tall brunette. Prior to her marriage, Nina had had a very turbulent dating life. She was bold and daring, dating differing people of various ages and from various walks of life. She was searching for this one special person by trial and error. She went to Paris on her own. It was one of her crazy adventures. She had no plans of meeting a guy. Just to walk and see the city. Just to breathe its air and be alone.
Yet, life decided differently. Nina met a guy. He came to her and asked her for a drink. He was so incredibly attractive that she could not refuse his offer. When they were sitting in a coffee shop, he did not hide his thoughts. He bluntly suggested that they have an adventure, as soon as he finishes his shift. There was something simple, outlandish and primordial in this offer. Nobody offered just sex to her – so bluntly, so passionately, and in such a masculine manner.
Strangely enough, she felt under no pressure. Looking at him she already knew the answer. She longed for him. Yet she was not saying either way for a while…. They agreed to meet in her hotel at night. Nina was waiting impatiently. She was not nervous. For she knew that they will part this very night. He showed her Paris that night. They drove revealing amazing views from his car window – all that makes Paris such a wonderful city.
After a very long night café crawl, in which they talked endlessly about life, relationships, love and disappointments, they ended up at his flat in the Northern Parisian outskirt. The passion they shared can only happen between people who have no clue about each other’s lives and vices and who long for one thing – to give unconditional physical love to one another.
He drove her back through Paris at 5.30 in the morning. The city was peaceful and clean. Charming calm of the streets and romantic sadness of their imminent parting was settling in. Nina had a very mixed feeling of pleasure and sorrow. She partially quenched her desire for freedom and adventure. She was in the midst of it all, and knew that it was rapidly coming to an end. Perhaps, it was sad to part with that adventure, that story, which later became so precious. Nina felt that she was in the middle of her search for love, yet she was in limbo between her dreams and reality.
Some doubts were roaming within her, telling that some part of her has been given away forever. That part, which Nina gave so generously and without reservations, was to disappear, leave her and stay in her past for good. What was that part? A chip of love? Something that she stole from herself or from her future husband? Or something that she has given to herself? Happiness, freedom, sadness, doubt, and pain – have you ever experienced all those feelings at once?
He wrote his number and handed it over to her. But she tore the piece of paper apart and boldly threw it away. There was no turning back. He kissed her gently and left the hotel. Nina hesitated for a while, listening him leave. She will never forget that hissing sound of his car tires on the Parisian street in that early September morning. The sound of vanishing happiness, lost hopes, unfulfilled dreams, or a lucky relief …. She knew that she would not have a one-night stand again.
Infidelity is definitely a sin, but the fact doesn’t stop some married people from dating other individuals. Maybe their marriage is on the rocks, or their marriage lacks excitement. Whatever the reasons are, there will always be spouses who will stray and date other people. The question is, are they dating single people or are they dating married individuals like themselves?
Believe it or not, but there are online services that cater to those married people who want to date outside their marriage. These married dating sites may sound immoral to some, but the service can be likened to escort services. They are discreet about it, and it will provide a safe haven for those who want to indulge in forbidden pleasures. Whether you like it or not, there are more and more “married but dating” individuals out there who’d like to break out of the monotony of their married lives and explore what’s on the other side of the fence.
What exactly do these married dating sites offer? They allow married individuals to join a community of users who are also married and looking for dates and casual encounters. The sites offer them ultimate discretion and protection when using their services. How these sites work is pretty much the same as the standard online dating services; there are messaging services you can use to chat with other members, e-mail and match-making services.
Is married dating worth it? Depends on who you ask. Conservatives will automatically tell you that it’s wrong and there are no excuses to cheat on your spouse; on the other hand, liberal-minded people will tell you that as long as it’s done discreetly, it’s all good. And discretion is where these married dating sites are all about.
There are lots of married dating sites where you can sign up and join.
1. WildMatch
The site promises sexy partners, single or dating. Quite simply, it’s a place where people can look for sex and get it.
2. SexyAds
It features “lonely housewives” who need some loving, according to the website. The service promises hookups with no strings attached. It’s an adult personal community where married people can go look for other married people and enjoy consensual pleasures.
3. MarriedSecrets
It’s an online dating site which provides married people new ways to have fun. The site guarantees “a fun-filled affair with like-minded adults.”
4. BangMatch
BangMatch is considered as one of the top adult dating sites around. Easy sex is their promise; it can’t any simpler than that. The site further guarantees that they have a big number of women waiting to cheat on their husbands. Perfect for married dating encounters.
5. DiscreetAdventures
For married women and men looking for hush-hush encounters, the site provides a safe and anonymous way for married ones to experience illicit, extra-marital excitement. There are some nifty features, where a member can send kisses to other members, signifying that he is interested in them. It is also equipped with basics such as e-mail, instant messaging, and match-finder service.
Fact is, we are all human. Both men AND women have that urge to just want to do it right there and then.
However, before you go out and begin the sexual encounter, you must be aware of the two different types of one night stand women out there. On one hand, you have the no strings attached type who want the quick sex and will leave you alone before you even notice, and on the other hand, there are the women who first claim they are looking for quick sex but then become emotionally involved and want you to become their boyfriend!
It is not uncommon to see one night stands come with baggage so this serves as a warning as well.
You will immediately tell what type of woman she is by her approach to you. If she is easy to get into bed, then it’s likely that she is aggressive and just wants a one night stand full of sex.
Most men think they need to go out and hire a hotel, or worse come with a hotel all booked and prepared. Don’t do this as it makes you look very desperate when you check in. You should just let it happen naturally and let it lead from one base to another.
Remember, women are just as impressed with the little things such as opening the car door for her or picking up a flower from the park as you walk by.
Patience is the name of the game. The more patience you show, the more you will receive in the end. Just allow the moment to take its course and it will eventually lead to the bed.
Most men also are not sure what to do after they have had their sexual moment. Most men just find the opportunity to bolt through door. This is not the best way. However, you must also avoid being too emotionally attached and becoming too soft as you may end up falling for each other without the intention of doing so.
Most men also tell the women that they will call them and meet up again before eventual departure, never having the intention to do so. This can leave a sour taste by building a fake expectation and can cause embarrassment in the future when you accidentally bump into them again.
It’s probably best to leave early in the morning and have a mutual departure and also thank her for such a great night. Don’t forget that the woman is also likely to have the same thoughts as you in regards of how to depart gracefully without hurting you too. This was because the both of you only ever had the intention of a one night stand with no strings attached anyway.
In the mean time, Good Luck!
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Fact is, we are all human. Both men AND women have that urge to just want to do it right there and then.
However, before you go out and begin the sexual encounter, you must be aware of the two different types of one night stand women out there. On one hand, you have the no strings attached type who want the quick sex and will leave you alone before you even notice, and on the other hand, there are the women who first claim they are looking for quick sex but then become emotionally involved and want you to become their boyfriend!
It is not uncommon to see one night stands come with baggage so this serves as a warning as well.
You will immediately tell what type of woman she is by her approach to you. If she is easy to get into bed, then it’s likely that she is aggressive and just wants a one night stand full of sex.
Most men think they need to go out and hire a hotel, or worse come with a hotel all booked and prepared. Don’t do this as it makes you look very desperate when you check in. You should just let it happen naturally and let it lead from one base to another.
Remember, women are just as impressed with the little things such as opening the car door for her or picking up a flower from the park as you walk by.
Patience is the name of the game. The more patience you show, the more you will receive in the end. Just allow the moment to take its course and it will eventually lead to the bed.
Most men also are not sure what to do after they have had their sexual moment. Most men just find the opportunity to bolt through door. This is not the best way. However, you must also avoid being too emotionally attached and becoming too soft as you may end up falling for each other without the intention of doing so.
Most men also tell the women that they will call them and meet up again before eventual departure, never having the intention to do so. This can leave a sour taste by building a fake expectation and can cause embarrassment in the future when you accidentally bump into them again.
It’s probably best to leave early in the morning and have a mutual departure and also thank her for such a great night. Don’t forget that the woman is also likely to have the same thoughts as you in regards of how to depart gracefully without hurting you too. This was because the both of you only ever had the intention of a one night stand with no strings attached anyway.